2. Involve your siblings
Read our guide to discover three steps on how to involve your siblings in the caregiving of your parents so you receive the help you need as their primary caregiver:
- Examine why your siblings aren’t helping out
- Share the full picture with your family
- Have proactive discussions about everyone’s responsibilities
3. Engage long-distance siblings in caregiving
Discover practical ways to involve your long-distance siblings in caring for aging parents with Dr. Amy’s expert advice. From leveraging technology to assigning specific care tasks, this section provides tips for achieving family harmony while ensuring that all family members are involved in the caregiving process.
4. What should I do if my siblings won’t help?
It’s common for siblings to disagree on matters like how best to support an aging parent, but sometimes brothers and sisters can also differ on how involved they are with the caregiving of their parents. Dr. Amy offers valuable advice on how to navigate these difficult conversations and manage conflicts that may arise, such as:
- Identifying each sibling’s strengths and weaknesses and delegating tasks accordingly
- Seek outside help, such as from a mediator or a therapist, if necessary
- Keep the focus on the well-being of your parents and keep their wishes and preferences in mind throughout the process
